US edition - available April 2026

Michael Pilarczyk

DESIGN YOUR
OWN LIFE

A proven strategy to build a life of authentic purpose and fulfillment - developed from hundreds of real stories of transformation. This personal development book helps you design your own life with practical mindset tools.

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The Book

What does a meaningful life actually look like?

Design Your Own Life answers that question through a proven twelve-step program - developed from surveys and real conversations with hundreds of people searching for meaning - and those who found it. Instead of vague inspiration, the book gives you a clear structure to make better choices, break unhelpful patterns, and build momentum toward what matters most.

Each step builds on the previous one, guiding you through self-discovery exercises, mindset shifts, and concrete strategies for aligning your daily choices with your long-term aspirations and authentic values. You’ll learn how to get honest about what you want, turn that vision into practical next steps, and create simple systems that keep you consistent - especially on days when motivation is low. The result is a plan you can actually follow: clear, personal, and designed to last.

The 12-step framework

01
Know yourself
Uncover your core values and what truly drives you.
02
Define your vision
Build a vivid, compelling picture of the life you want.
03
Shift your mindset
Replace limiting beliefs with empowering frameworks.
04–12
Build & sustain
Nine more steps to design, execute, and maintain lasting transformation.
Gabrielle Bernstein

“Michael’s wisdom is a gentle invitation to come home to yourself. Design Your Own Life guides you back to inner clarity, self-worth, and the quiet power of choosing who you want to become. This book will realign your energy, open your heart, and help you create a life that feels truly guided.”

Gabrielle Bernstein
#1 New York Times bestselling author - The Universe Has Your Back
Michael Pilarczyk

About the author

MICHAEL PILARCZYK

One of Europe’s most sought-after speakers and personal development coaches.

International bestselling author
500,000+ copies sold across multiple languages
Global speaker & coach
Keynotes & masterclasses for entrepreneurs
Masterminds Academy
Founder of a leading platform for personal mastery

About the author

Michael Pilarczyk is a European bestselling author, entrepreneur, and mentor in mindset, personal success, and self-development. His book Master Your Mindset has sold 1 million copies and has been honored with a Golden Book Award.

Michael’s journey to awareness is a powerful example of resilience, vision, and the transformative power of mindset. Born in communist Poland (1969) and raised in the Netherlands, he followed his dream and became a well-known Dutch radio host and MTV personality. By his late 20s, he had achieved financial success, but after a series of poor investments, he found himself $2 million in debt before turning 30. Facing the darkest moments of his life, he contemplated giving up - but instead, with guidance from his mentors, he started a new chapter in his life.

He went on to become a successful entrepreneur, founding and selling multimillion-dollar businesses before deciding to pursue his childhood dream of sailing the world. Through this journey to awareness, he discovered clarity, purpose, and a deep passion for helping others master their own lives.

Michael is inspired by Jim Rohn, Alan Watts, Jiddu Krishnamurti, Deepak Chopra, and his profound mentor and most inspiring role model, Wayne W. Dyer. Michael’s mission is clear: to help people live a meaningful life and create a better world.

Design Your Own Life brings Michael’s life-changing principles to a global audience, empowering readers to take control of their thoughts, break through limitations, and create the life they desire.

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